Heather Cardoza - A Cheating Wife
This webpage is dedicated to the first-hand documents supporting the infidelity and extramarital affair of Heather Cardoza of
This webpage is dedicated to the first-hand documents supporting the infidelity and extramarital affair of Heather Cardoza of
This webpage is dedicated to the first-hand documents supporting the extramarital affair (with a resort worker) of Heather Cardoza, (maiden name Heather Butler), Regional Sales Manager at Cytiva (formerly GE Life Sciences). All documents to follow are either in Heather Cardoza‘s personal handwriting, from her correspondence, court submitted documents or a medical bill associated with an incurable STD contracted from her extramarital affair with a resort worker in Maui.
The documents below can also be found on the Santa Clara County Family Court.
Case Type: Dissolution w/ Minor Case Number: 17FL000082 Filing Date: 1/6/2017 Case Status: Active Court Location: Family
Heather Cardoza‘s Maui ”Fling” gone bad
Heather Cardoza’s saved “fling” text messages
These are texts (2 pages worth - click or download the doc) saved by Heather Cardoza Cytiva Regional Sales Manager to her personal email spanning from the week that she met Scott (while on vacation with her kids and her parents while her husband was home on bed rest after
man Uber ride share accident) until she was dumped for the next “flavor or the week”. Heather filed for divorce on January 6th, 2017 in an attempt to hang onto Scott. She was desperate because at this time, she knew she had contracted an incurable STD from Scott. More details and supporting documents are below
Heather Cardoza Cytiva Regional Sales Manager gets caught in an "inappropriate" situation with Scott by a family from the same Willow Glen California neighborhood, also on vacation in Maui. She knows that word will get back to her husband about her fling so she immediately books a flight back to Maui after returning home with her kids (5 and 7 years old) in an attempt to create a relationship with Scott. Heather Schedules a flight back to Maui, using the families frequent flyer miles, and then has to figure out a way to "disappear" for several days. Even though her husband is on medication for a serious spinal injury, her erratic behavior triggers suspicion that something happened during the Maui trip with her parents and kids. Things like not letting her kids play games on her cell phone or keeping it in her pocket when she typically left it out on the kitchen counter or dinning room table. Other odd behavior for her included going outside to answer texts and a new habit of going to bed early to "read a book" Heather had never been an avid reader. Thinking she was being crafty, she would place her cell phone in the booking she was "reading" so she could text back and forth with Scott. without it being seen. What Heather didn't realize was that her cell phone screen reflected off of her reading glasses so her husband could became aware that she was attempting to hide something Her husband gets suspicious starts asking questions about if anything happened in Maui.
Heather accidentally uses the family bank account to pay for
Heather Cardoza Cytiva Regional Sales Manager claimed to be going out of town with some of her girlfriends for a “relaxation weekend” in Napa over Veterans day weekend (Heather’s now Ex-Husband is an Air Force veteran). What she really did was fly over 3000 miles to Maui, by herself, to meet Scott , a guy she did not really know, and then fly back San Jose. Note from page 1 of the statement that Heather spent almost $300 on drinks and food in one night alone on Scott. She spent almost $5,000 in family funds on airfare, hotel, food and drinks for a 2 day “relaxation weekend” with Scott. That is a drop in the bucket for compared to the hundreds of thousands of dollars in legal fees as a result of her affair and subsequent actions.
Heather Cardoza discovers she contracted an incurable STD
Below is the bill for Heather Cardoza’s (Cytiva Regional Sales Manager) full panel test that she had done after she discovered she had contracted a STD after having unprotected sex with Scott. It must be noted, the test was requested by Gateway Family Medical Center, an urgent care facility, not her OBGYN whom she had been going to for years.
On January 5th, 2017, after Heather Cardoza Cytiva Life Sciences is diagnosed with an incurable STD and knowing that her husband will soon find out the truth and the full extent of her deception, Heather, with the help of her old high buddies Courtney Macavinta and.Janell Campbell (Wife of the former top Assembly staffer in Sacramento, Greg Campbell, who had an affair of his own with his admin) devise a game plan to put herself in a position to move Scott to California and in with her. At this point she has confessed to a few of her close friends that she is having an affair. The refer to her affair as a "romantic situation" on page three of the document. She files for divorce on January 6th, 2017 in an last desperate attempt to salvage her relationship with Scott. Her husband is informed by mutual friends a few months later that she had been caught cheating by the Willow Glen family mentioned above.
To cover-up and claim that she wasn't cheating during her October 2016 fling with Scott, Heather devised a plan to force her husband into taking a one month "break" from their marriage. Her claim was that they were both under a lot of stress because of work demands and his serious neck injury. Her husband would not agree to this for multiple reasons including the fact he was home on doctor ordered bedrest getting treatment for his neck injury. An injury that ultimately required major surgery to repair. She then threated to file for divorce if he did not agree to the break - a conversation witnessed by the life coach the had been working with. With a figurative gun to his head, her husband agreed to move out for a month.
She then attempted to reverse engineer the dates so the break would coincide with the time she was caught cheating in October and to have the opportunity fly back to Maui in November.
Despite admitting to her affair in court, Heather Cardoza continues to claim to friends and family that she and her husband we on a break when she had her "romantic situation" with Scott. As supported in the included documents, she was neither on a break, separated, filed for divorce or divorced when she had her affair. Additionally, her legal counsel has used her admitted affair in arguments against her husband since California is a no fault state so infidelity cannot be used a grounds for damages.
After gathering some information and getting some help from his intelligence friends, here husband was able to get the story of Scott De'Amico. Scott was from the Galveston area of Texas. He had disappeared from Galveston a few months earlier (where he was a barber and owned a beauty salon with his wife) and popped up in Maui. Scott got a job at the Maui Wave Riders company where he worked in a beach hut renting surfing equipment and giving lessons to guests staying at the hotel. Heathers husband made a few phone calls to the company, talked to some of his colleagues and learned that Scott (47 years old) had made a game out of hitting on the female guests with kids in an attempt to sleep with them. He wasn't looking for a relationship so married women were his target. He would give away free equipment rentals, lessons, tours to get their attention then invite them to meet him out for drinks later, get some drinks in them and then make his move. His colleagues implied that he was a real dirt bag. He did meet a dirt bag match in Heather since it took planning, determination and lying to break away from her parents and kids (who were all sharing a suite) to share some "romantic" moments with Scott.
What has been the financial cost in attorneys fees so far? $450,000 and counting for both parties. Heather used the family home as collateral to run up hundreds of thousands of dollars in legal fees with Hoover and Krepelka LLP, the family law firm she hired to cover up her affair. The family home had to be liquidated in order to pay the massive legal bills Heather Cardoza ran up. These numbers are supported by financial disclosures submitted to the Santa Clara county court.
The emotional cost of Heather Cardoza's affair cannot be measured, but it has been extremely destructive. Both children have experienced significant psychological and psychosomatic distress and as a result need continued medical and psychological treatment.
Narcissism is a personality disorder that is characterized by a grandiose sense of self-importance, a lack of empathy for others, and a need for admiration. Narcissists often have an inflated sense of their own abilities and achievements, and they may be preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, and attractiveness.
Narcissism is a complex disorder that can be difficult to diagnose, as many of the symptoms can be mistaken for other mental health conditions. However, there are some common signs and symptoms that may indicate narcissism, including:
- A grandiose sense of self-importance
- A preoccupation with fantasies of success, power, and attractiveness
- A belief that they are special and unique
- A need for constant admiration and attention
- A lack of empathy for others
- A tendency to exploit others for their own gain
- A sense of entitlement
- A tendency to be envious of others
- A belief that others are envious of them
- A tendency to be arrogant and haughty
Narcissism can have a significant impact on a person's relationships, as they may struggle to form meaningful connections with others. They may also struggle with feelings of loneliness and isolation, as their need for admiration and attention can be difficult to satisfy.
Treatment for narcissism typically involves therapy, which can help individuals with narcissistic personality disorder to develop more empathy and compassion for others. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) are two common types of therapy that may be used to treat narcissism.
In addition to therapy, there are also some self-help strategies that individuals with narcissistic personality disorder can use to manage their symptoms. These may include:
- Practicing mindfulness and meditation to develop greater self-awareness
- Engaging in activities that promote empathy and compassion, such as volunteering or helping others
- Developing a support network of friends and family members who can provide emotional support and encouragement
- Setting realistic goals and expectations for themselves, and learning to accept failure and setbacks as a natural part of life
- Learning to communicate effectively and assertively, without resorting to manipulation or aggression
In conclusion, narcissism is a complex personality disorder that can have a significant impact on a person's relationships and overall well-being. However, with the right treatment and self-help strategies, individuals with narcissistic personality disorder can learn to manage their symptoms and develop more meaningful connections with others. If you or someone you know is struggling with narcissism, it is important to seek professional help and support.
Covert narcissism is a type of narcissistic personality disorder that is characterized by a more subtle and hidden form of narcissism. Unlike overt narcissists who are more grandiose and attention-seeking, covert narcissists tend to be more introverted and withdrawn, making it harder to detect their narcissistic tendencies.
Some common signs and symptoms of covert narcissism include:
- A tendency to be overly sensitive and defensive
- A lack of empathy for others
- A preoccupation with their own thoughts and feelings
- A tendency to manipulate and control others
- A need for admiration and attention, but in a more subtle way
- A tendency to play the victim and blame others for their problems
- A tendency to be passive-aggressive in their behavior
- A tendency to be envious of others, but in a more hidden way
- A tendency to be critical and judgmental of others
Covert narcissists can be difficult to detect, as they often present themselves as humble and self-effacing. However, over time, their true nature may become more apparent as they begin to manipulate and control those around them.
Treatment for covert narcissism typically involves therapy, which can help individuals with covert narcissistic tendencies to develop more empathy and compassion for others. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) are two common types of therapy that may be used to treat covert narcissism.
In addition to therapy, there are also some self-help strategies that individuals with covert narcissistic tendencies can use to manage their symptoms. These may include:
- Practicing mindfulness and meditation to develop greater self-awareness
- Engaging in activities that promote empathy and compassion, such as volunteering or helping others
- Developing a support network of friends and family members who can provide emotional support and encouragement
- Learning to communicate effectively and assertively, without resorting to manipulation or aggression
- Setting realistic goals and expectations for themselves, and learning to accept failure and setbacks as a natural part of life
Yes. Narcissists do care. Here are the 3 main things that mean the world to the Narcissist, because if they don’t have at least 2 of these things going for them, in their eyes, they have nothing. The things Narcissists care about are very self-serving and superficial. But they are a true reflection of their Narcissistic Insecurity and the emptiness they have inside.
1. Image.
So, the first thing that means the world to the Narcissist is their image. The way they look, dress, etc. Image is everything to a Narcissist. Sociopaths, on the other hand, would have no issues rolling out of bed and walking to a corner shop all ruffled and unkept because they do not care how they look or how they are perceived. They make an effort only when it suits them.
But Narcissists, especially in their prime years, are obsessed with looking good and appearing to have it all. The Covert Narcissist, specifically, is very strategic with what they allow people to see about them. When they walk out of that door, they see it as a performance. Everything has to be in line with the image that they are trying to push.
Narcissists invest time, money, and energy to look good and get people to think quite highly of them. Everything they do is to improve their reputation and status. And the only people who get to see behind the disguise are those closest to them like their partners and children.
2. Narcissistic Supply.
The second thing that means the world to the Narcissist is their Narcissistic Supply, which usually comes as a result of that fake image that they have created. They need attention, compliments, and praise to feel good about themselves. They need to know that they are loved by the masses and held in high esteem. They also need that dark Narcissistic supply that they get from hurting and betraying those that they claim to love.
And in order to get this, they have to deceive people into getting into a relationship with them. The amount of effort the Narcissist puts into getting their Narcissistic Supply is enough proof to show how much it matters to them. With Narcissists, people are just a means to an end, and that is why they are not able to truly love or care for anyone. Because all they want from us is their Narcissistic Supply. It makes them feel powerful and in control.
3. Money & Power.
The third thing the Narcissist cares about is Money and Power. Money helps them to boost their fake image and purchase more and more stuff to distract from their miserable existence and try to make themselves happy. They refuse to accept that money cannot buy happiness. So, they are driven to be successful so that they can have more.
They have also realized that with more money, they can have control over more people. They can use their finances to keep certain people in their lives. And with money, as with everything else, the Narcissist cannot have enough and is never satisfied with what they have. With more money comes more power, and Narcissists take pleasure in controlling the lives of people and being feared.
Narcissists are weak, insecure, and highly dependent on the people around them to make them feel better about themselves or distract from their inner turmoil. So, they do care about their fake image as this is their green card to get access to more people. And more people mean more Narcissistic Supply. Narcissistic Supply is the Narcissist’s fuel for life. And finally, money and power are tools to help them gain even more control, maintain their image and provide further Narcissistic Supply.
If someone cheats on their partner in one relationship, what are the odds they will do so in another relationship? That’s the question addressed in a new study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior[i], titled “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?: Serial Infidelity Across Subsequent Relationships.” The researchers found that those who were unfaithful in one relationship had three times the odds of being unfaithful in the next, when compared to those who had not been unfaithful in the first relationship. Read the full article at Psychology Today.
Is your child being coerced into disliking you? This is known as narcissistic parental alienation syndrome.
You may have found that your once-healthy relationship with your children has become increasingly strained after your difficult divorce. Your children are now avoidant, disrespectful, or even cruel. Read the article at PsychCentral.
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